Cat pro's only please - advice on 'fussy' cat?

I am an inexperienced cat owner of 3 years. Mine doesn't like much fuss and it has taken the three years to get her to take some fuss and attention. She was a stray and decided to move in with me (no idea why as I had no experience of cats). I have just learnt to let her be. If she wants attention I give it, if she doesn't, then I don't. All cats are different so perhaps yours is just one of those (like mine) who doesn't want fussing over. As long as yours is happy, I wouldn't worry too much.